tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8378713847148252368.post9154973821502031439..comments2019-02-16T06:49:57.573-08:00Comments on Learning to...: Mrs. Learninghttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05397866075008432161noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8378713847148252368.post-39850476112036790492011-07-02T10:30:38.020-07:002011-07-02T10:30:38.020-07:00There have been many occasions where either V or I...There have been many occasions where either V or I didn't like half of a couple. That's no different than both of us not liking a couple- we're not going to see them again. We're strongly against "taking one for the team", which is what you're talking about really.<br /><br />As far as soft vs full swap, do whatever you and hubby are most comfortable with, if others aren't interested because of your boundaries, so be it.Hubmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12080481657336478578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8378713847148252368.post-58213838482765156552011-06-27T13:30:12.810-07:002011-06-27T13:30:12.810-07:00I am going to address the University thing first, ...I am going to address the University thing first, because I love my University. U of Houston, has undergone a huge facelift since I left, and every time we go back to campus we see a new building. The University is set to get a new football stadium in 2013 and it blows my mind. <br /><br />Tuition has also increased to triple the amount I paid in my first semester. The loans being taken out must be incredible. <br /><br />Swinging: Our philosophy is that we go to the boundry that is most "conservative" amongst ourselves and with play partners. You do the same. If you want to see Mr. Learning have sex with another woman the say so. There is nothing inherently wrong with being soft only.<br /><br />I have also known people who tried full and went back to soft. I like watching my wife with other guys too much to do that, but I would pull back if asked.<br /><br />Have fun dear!<br /><br />-JoshAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8378713847148252368.post-26218158128028631992011-06-26T15:00:10.765-07:002011-06-26T15:00:10.765-07:00We have thoughts on your other question, but would...We have thoughts on your other question, but would prefer to send them by e-mail. If your interested, you can just email us as I can't figure out what yours is (ours is cr8ivcpl@gmail.com).John and Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11498068360076870625noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8378713847148252368.post-40327160644722015322011-06-26T12:28:41.195-07:002011-06-26T12:28:41.195-07:00We have certainly had the experience of being good...We have certainly had the experience of being good to go with half a couple and not the other. When you are really into that half the couple, it's quite disappointing, but in the end we took the same approach as you did of just skipping them.John and Annhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11498068360076870625noreply@blogger.com