Swinger: Well, you know you are truly heading down the vanilla route when a friends so you some pictures of hedo and all you can see is an old dude getting sucked off in tube socks and think "damn, that dude is as old as my dad. I wouldn't want to see that happening". My friend was shocked that I didn't find it hot at all. It was like "no, that is not hot....pictures of guys of my dad's age getting sucked off is not for me man. That would make me run from hedo". I must be vanilla. I can't get into the mind set "wow, look at them screwing". I was more fixated on the ages. You know that is a sign of returning to vanilla probably. When you are swinging, I don't recall really noticing people's ages too much. Though it is funny that is all I saw when I saw the text.
Our friends are in hedo next month for the first time and they are going alone so they are trying to meet up with some people via the websites so they can get a feel for the place. That can be smart but that can be in a way, a pain. What happens if they meet some people online only to meet them at the place and they annoy you for the whole trip? I would be petrified at that. It's hard to tell people, "hey, you are nice but I am not swinging with you". We never really mastered that one. We'll see how it goes for them but you have to laugh.