I was visiting another office today and I was listening in on two of the ladies who were conversing about their significant others.  To tell you the truth, it was making me sick to my stomach.  The disrespect that they were noting was horrible. "He's lazy" "he needs to get a second job...wait he doesn't even have a job", "he never helps out", etc.  What a shame, that possibily their communication and partnership is like that.  I feel so fortunate to have such an excellent partner in life.  The only two things I would change is his sense of time and driving.  He always runs late.  Which gives me a ton of anxiety because I need to be on time.  He will tell people " we will be there at 12:00" but he'll play around, get side tracked, etc where we will pull in at 1:00 or later. I was taught that it is rude to tell people a time and not be there.  The other thing, he drives like hell.  He's been fired by two carpoolers due to his complaining/habits.  I will hold the Jesus handle for essentially the whole car ride.  So if those are the only two things, that's not bad.  Now only if I can firm up those behaviors bawah!!!!!